Look Out for Cyber-Bullying
Parents used to be able to identify the neighborhood bully. You know, the big, tough kid that lived down the block. Well, today's technology has put a whole new face on the bully, or rather, has effectively masked who the bully is. As social networking sites and cell phone usage expands, the potential for being a victim of cyber bully also grows.
Your child may be the victim of cyber-bullying if they suddenly have poor school performance, changes in eating and sleeping behaviors, difficulty focusing or completing tasks or a reluctance to engage in outside activities, attend school or use the computer. Parents should also watch for changes in behavior immediately following a telephone call or computer use. Does your child's body language indicate anxiety or fear? Does your child check to see who's calling when the phone rings, and then, demonstrate a hesitancy to answer certain calls?
To combat cyber-bullying, monitor your child's use of the internet and cell phone. Create a written contract with your child so you're both accountable. Place game systems and computers in a central location, like the kitchen or family room, so you can see what sites they're visiting and put in place parental controls.
Also, make sure to talk to your child about potential threats on the Internet and cell phone predators. Let your child know you are concerned. If you believe that your child is being cyber-bullied while using the Internet or cell phone, contact your provider/web site administrator immediately and place a complaint. If you become aware of a possible threat toward another person, notify your local police department immediately. Do not wait and hope the problem goes away.