How to Discipline your Child in Public Respectfully

Does your child’s behavior change when you are in public?  For some, it can. Not sure what to do?

Here are a few suggestions:

• Don't threaten your child with something you will not do. For example, "if you don't come over here we are leaving the store," and then, you don't.
• If you say something to your child, mean what you say and say what you mean.
• Try to prepare your child for the outing. No matter where you are going, tell your child and tell them what you expect of them. For example, "Bobbie we are going into the grocery store to get some groceries and I need you to help me by sitting in the cart and watch my purse for me." When in a store or restaurant provide guidance by saying, "We need to use our indoor voices in this store or restaurant."
• Have the child look for items on your list. Make it a creative outing.
• Tell your child if he/she behaves (and explain to them what you mean by behave) he/she can ride on the carousel AFTER you are finished in the store. If your child does not listen, remind them one time about the ride. Most importantly, if they do not listen, do not allow them to ride on the carousel and tell them why.
• Get on your child’s level and speak to him/her and tell him/her that you will not tolerate the behavior that he/she is exhibiting.
• If you must put your cart back and leave the store, do so. However, don’t leave the store because your child wants you to.
• You can take your child to the bathroom or out to your car for a time out. You can decide at that time if you will return or not.
• Keep your rules and expectations clear and simple.
• You will be successful if you stay calm. Know that many other parents have experienced similar situations.
• Don't give up!